Many times in this series, I have cautioned readers not to view a real estate transaction – on either side, buy or sell – as simply an investment.
A house is about so much more than dollars and cents. It’s about a place to “do” your life. It’s an investment, yes, and if you play the long game, it can be a spectacularly good one. But it’s an investment that shelters you, your family, your pets, and occasionally your friends. It sets a stage for the events of your life. It becomes part of your history.
But there are times – especially when selling – that I advise my clients to set all that aside and think about the money alone. No emotions. Just numbers.
I worked with a couple who owned two investment properties, one of which was the husband’s first house purchase. They wanted to liquidate one property and use the cash for other things. A lot of meaningful events took place in the “first” house, and for sentimental reasons, they preferred to keep it and sell the other one. But the first house was going to be easier to sell, and after 10 years of ownership, the appreciation had been significant. After some necessary soul-searching, and maybe a few tears, the decision was made to sell it – and enjoy the significant ROI.
Another couple was selling a historic house they had owned for 47 years and had renovated largely by themselves. They raised their children there, planted the gardens, and loved their neighbors. They wanted to sell it to a buyer who would live there with family as they had done, and not to an investor who'd flip it and turn it into something grand and flashy. The house represented a big chunk of their net worth and, obviously, they wanted as much as they could get. So, they had to look at the dollars and accept that the buyer who offered the best price and terms was the buyer who would get it – regardless of what happened after closing.
Another seller had an architecturally unique house that needed a lot of work he was unable to do himself – so, it was time to move on. It was a very interesting house, but it didn’t appeal to the average buyer. And, as with the couple above, the house represented a significant part of the seller’s net worth. After receiving and accepting a decent offer, some fairly aggressive negotiations ensued over inspection issues. Tempers flared, and at several points, my seller wanted to tell the buyers to take a hike. But, putting emotions aside and looking at the numbers alone helped my seller embrace the fact that he was going to walk away with more than three times his original cash investment after only seven years of ownership. An excellent return!
Sometimes, at the end of the day, it really is only about the money.